If you look up research on meditation, you’ll most likely
come across the term “mindfulness.” On one hand, the term’s definition is quite
clear, ”Mindfulness is a characteristic of mental states that emphasizes
observing and attending to current experiences, including inner experiences,
such as thoughts and emotions” (Hill & Updegraff, 2012). This definition is
similar to what some meditation schools (particularly Buddhist) aim to
accomplish. But then the researchers’ focus shift shifts toward something
confusing to me, “Mindfulness, then, may also be helpful in improving emotion
regulation by increasing awareness, and, more specifically, emotional awareness
of subtle differences between emotional experiences in the present moment” (Hill
& Updegraff, 2012). The problem with this approach is that once you shift
your attention to your emotions, you instantly lose your mindfulness. While the
researchers do emphasize the importance of paying attention only those emotions
that you experience in the present moment, your emotions represent only a
fraction of your experiences in a present moment. At the very least, your mind in
order to be full should include at least three types of experiences: 1) your
body’s movements, 2) everything you feel, see, and hear from the surrounding
environment, 3) your thoughts and emotions. The researchers then discuss the
effects of emotion labeling (which, for some reasons, they continue calling “mindfulness")
on emotion regulation. They state, however, “it is well known that Buddhist
meditation is thought to improve emotional awareness and control by learning to
focus one’s attention on aspects of emotional responses,” which is simply
false. I never heard of a Buddhist method that would set a goal “to improve emotional
awareness.” But I’m not writing this to argue; I just want to point out that
once you start to focus on your emotions, your mind latches on to it, making it
increasingly difficult to move on to other things. It may seem beneficial at
first, because you distance yourself from a troublesome emotion by analyzing it,
but after that you’re stuck with that emotion not only on the emotional but
also on the mental levels.
Buddhist approaches
vary depending on school of thought, but one of the most commonly used methods
is mantra. I met monks and nuns from South Korea, India, Burma, Tibet, and
Japan who use this type of meditation. Essentially, the method of mantra allows
you to create an independent from your attachments (which are all those
experiences that trigger an emotional or mental reaction from you) point and to
solidify it by training to concentrate on that mantra 24/7. The details on how
to use mantra can easily get overwhelming, but basically it allows you to
observe all and any experiences coming and going through your mind without
discrimination, that is, it helps you to train yourself not to pay more attention to your emotions than to the
little dot on the floor that you’re staring at when you meditate.
Reference:
Hill, C., Updegraff, J. (2012). Mindfulness and its
relationship to emotional regulation. Emotion, 12,
81–90.
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