There’s one state of mind that makes emotion regulation
more difficult than it should be. This difficulty comes from the person’s
reaction to certain emotions, when a feeling triggers an emotional reaction. For
example, when an anxiety attack triggers fear, the fear locks the anxiety, and
the only way to get rid of the anxiety is to turn off the fear first. One of
the most difficult mental states to deal with is when anxiety triggers anxiety—which
is not that unusual—the state in which it becomes extremely difficult to
compose oneself. Oftentimes, this mental state is called the panic attack. If
the intensity of the emotion is mild to moderate, then for taking control over
it, it should be sufficient to simply lean back in a comfortable chair while
imagining the situation that triggers your anxiety. You need to stay perfectly
still in relation to the emotion, particularly during the very beginning of its
appearance. It takes about two months of half an hour every day practice to
develop a mental gap between the primary and secondary anxieties. Once you
split the two anxieties, you’ll be able to turn both of them, always shutting
down the secondary anxiety first. In fact, no matter what combination of
emotions you’re working on, the secondary feeling needs to be resolved first.
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